Speaking Out about Education – Part 2/6

September 13, 2010

One year, a vice principal at the high school where I worked pulled me aside and in confidence urged me to lower my standards so more students would pass my classes.

The the failure rate  in my classroom sometimes reached 50% and was often hovering around 30%.  Few earned ‘As’.  Many earned ‘Ds’ and barely scrapped by.  While I was being tough on grades and demanding of my students, many of my colleagues were not.

The reason why standards were low among most teachers was due to pressure from admisntration and parents who wanted their children to feel good about themselves—which means boosting self-esteem artificially.

  • What the narrator leaves out is that the self-esteem movement started outside of the schools and spread to the schools like a virus. The schools were forced to comply or else. Source: Free Republic and Self-Esteem

However, wanting kids to have high self-esteem is a double-edged blade

When I graded the lowest failing grades with a minus ( – ­) sign showing that a student had done next to no work in class and no homework, I was called into the office by one of the other vice principals.

She ordered me with the threat of administrative action to drop the minus sign behind the failing grades, which I did.

She said, “They (the students) feel bad enough as it is. Why do you have to make it worse?”

– to be continued

Return to Speaking Out About Education – Part 1

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Lloyd Lofthouse is the award-winning author of the concubine saga, My Splendid Concubine & Our Hart. When you love a Chinese woman, you marry her family and culture too. 

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Where are the Parents – Part 2/4

April 14, 2010

When I was still teaching, one of the most common questions parents asked was, “What can we do to get him to read and do his homework? He won’t listen.” I said, “Turn off the television and any computer linked to the Internet. Learn to say no and mean it.” Most never followed that advice and I seldom saw improvement in that child’s study habits or grades.

Teens watching TV, not reading or doing homework

The latest research, published in the April issue of the journal Pediatrics, shows that having a bedroom television not only leads to more TV viewing, but also results in less time spent with the family, less time exercising, lower fruit and vegetable intake, more sweetened beverage consumption, and in lower grades. Source: Onslow/Allison

The scary thing is that many American parents don’t know how bad a job they are doing raising their kids. The average child watches several hours of television daily and spends several more text messaging or camping on Websites like YouTube. That same child goes to bed late and gets up early to go to school. Most American teens aren’t getting the nine hours of sleep necessary for their mental and physical growth and sleep is important.

In addition, more than forty percent of American children are latchkey kids. At the end of the school day, latchkey kids go home to an empty house because both parents are working to pay for that ten thousand dollar credit-card debt the average American family owes.

Continued in Where are the Parents – Part 3 or return to Part 1

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Lloyd Lofthouse is the award-winning author of My Splendid Concubine [3rd edition]. When you love a Chinese woman, you marry her family and culture too. This is the love story Sir Robert Hart did not want the world to discover.

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