Christmas in China

I don’t read Mandarin and a few days ago an e-mail arrived that was in Mandarin with an attachment.

I’ve learned the hard way that you don’t open e-mails when you don’t know where there from, so I waited until my wife read the Mandarin and told me it was from our daughter’s grandfather in China.

Inside the attached file were twelve virtual Christmas cards in English with flashing Christmas lights in winter settings. Grandpa lives in Shanghai.

Shanghai shopping malls are decorated for Christmas.

Many Shanghai Chinese have adopted the Christmas holiday and take it seriously even giving gifts.

One Chinese man in the embedded video says, “Perhaps because Shanghai is quite an international city, we attach much importance to this festival and celebrate it in a grander manner compared to other cities in China.”

A young Chinese woman says, “If you live overseas for a long time, you will know that this is the time to reunite with your friends and exchange Christmas presents with those you know.”

The expat owner of a German restaurant even set up a stall outside offering blue wine, a type of warm wine popular among Germans during Christmas.

The twelve virtual Christmas cards our daughter’s grandfather attached to his e-mail said, “Remember… Through the year, be thankful for what you have…”

2. “If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep… You are richer than 75% of the world.”

3. “If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish some place, you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy.”

 4. “If you woke up this morning with more health than illness… You are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week.”

5. “If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation… You are ahead of 500 million people in the world.”

6. “If you can attend a church meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death… You are more blessed than three billion people in the world.”

7. “If your parents are still alive and still married… You are very rare, even in the United States.”

8. “If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful… You are blessed, because the majority can, but most do not.”

9. “If you can hold someone’s hand, hug them or even touch them on the shoulder… You are blessed because you can offer healing touch.”

10. “If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing that someone was thinking of you, and furthermore… You are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read at all.”

11. “Have a good day, count your blessings, and pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all are. You are wished a Merry Christmas.”

12. “Remember… throughout the year, be thankful for what you have been blessed with…”

A grandfather that fought on the winning side of China’s Civil War (1925 – 1949) then held an important position in Chinese Communist Party until he retired at 67 (as the 1982 Chinese Constitution requires) sent these twelve virtual Christmas cards.

In fact, he was born during the Civil War about 1930 and was nineteen when it ended.

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Lloyd Lofthouse is the award-winning author of the concubine saga, My Splendid Concubine & Our Hart. When you love a Chinese woman, you marry her family and culture too.

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